Ashley Schafer speaks to 49th Fighter Training Squadron pilots, March 11, 2019, on Columbus Air Force Base, Mississippi. After the death of her husband, Maj. Richard Schafer, a 49th FTS instructor pilot, in August 2014, she has traveled and spoke to military members and families educating them on how to prepare for the worst. (U.S. Air Force photo by Airman 1st Class Keith Holcomb)